So let me paint a picture for you: If you crack open Eureka Middle School's 95-96' yearbook, you'll quickly spot a cute little girl on the front row (so placed because she's notably short). She's wearing an all-light pink outfit to match a colossal pink bow which is almost hidden by impressively fluffed bangs. She's even sporting fold-over white socks with lace trimming, and the lace skims right along the top of her white Keds. So precious. Fast forward a few years (ok, about 15 years), and that little girl is nearing the end of her first year of a prestigious MBA program.
What happened to that adorable "girly-girl" who, even in the 5th grade, still loved Barbies and experimenting with makeup? Wasn't she supposed to be a Marine Biologist or Horse Caretaker? Or even a Wedding Dress Designer?? Oh, don't worry- she's still there... only she, or rather, I.... have traded light pink overalls for a skirt suit.
So why the blog? Partly because it's an experiment for my Social Media Strategy class. But mostly because I want to tell all business women- you don't need to become something you're not to have an influence in the business world. Just because there are a lot of men doesn't mean you need to change your behavior or adopt certain characteristics to fit in or be acknowledged. It is possible to be feminine and a business woman. This blog will be dedicated to observations, advice, and thoughts of how men and women can work better together in a business setting.
Of note: There are many with strong opinions about women and gender roles in the work place. In these posts, it is never my wish to offend. I believe if you are working to be your best self, and you embrace who you are, the world will do the same. Lastly, self-respect, and respect for others, can make all the difference in the world.
My sign off signature from now on: Be classy and kind, and you'll earn the respect you deserve.
I love it! I know you're ridiculously busy, but if the day ever comes that you're not, you still need to read Wendy Shalit's books. So so up your alley.
ReplyDeleteOn another note: I bought my last Barbie in 8th grade.... super cool.
I love you!!
Um, you are hilarious!! I loved this! I read it last week when you sent the link but totally forgot to comment!
ReplyDeleteYou are woman -- we hear you roar. Your comments make me think about how I find myself returning back to those dreams & ideals I once had many, many years ago, and now those are my current dreams. It seems the older we get -- the more convoluted we make life. I yearn for those simple perspectives and ideals I had so long ago.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely agree that the time has come for women to be themselves in business and not be obsessed with "wearing the pants." I would argue that it makes people trust a woman leader more if she is real with honest - it's okay to show a little emotion in the boardroom once in a while. ;)
ReplyDeleteI look forward to reading your blog!
Thanks Melanie!!! I'm so glad you agree- it's exactly how I feel!
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